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THE ANCHOR OF LOVE

When you love someone deeply, you never get to prepare for a moment life decides to test that love in unimaginable ways. It's as if love becomes a crucible, a fire that refines and strengthens your bond, pushing you to depths you never thought possible. Love makes you strong, not just in the moments of joy and triumph, But in the darkest of times, when the only thing that keeps you going is the unwavering commitment to care for another. Love teaches you patience, the kind that seeps into your soul and becomes a part of your very being. It's the patience to understand, to empathize, and to stand by someone through the storms of life. Love teaches you devotion, a deep-seated loyalty that isn't swayed by the whims of circumstance. It's the kind of devotion that becomes your north star, guiding you through life's uncertainties. But most profoundly, love teaches you that care is not a duty, but an honor. It's the privilege of being there for someone, of hold...

FINDING PEACE IN THE PAUSE: REFLECTION ON GRATITUDE

  Gratitude has been the most persistent emotion I've felt throughout my journey. Even on the bad and terrible days, I've managed to hold onto it. It's a choice, a decision to focus on the good things in life, no matter how small they may seem. And it's a choice that's transformed my life in ways I never thought possible. I've learned to believe in the power of divine timing. I no longer try to rush my life, to force things to happen according to my own schedule. Instead, I've learned to trust in the natural flow of life, to trust that everything is unfolding as it should. And in that trust, I've found a sense of peace, a sense of calm. One thing I've come to realize is that you don't always need a plan. Sometimes, you just need a pause, a moment to breathe. A chance to listen to yourself, to tune in to your own needs and desires. It's okay to slow down, to take a step back and reevaluate your priorities. Giving yourself permiss...

THE GENTLE PRESENCE

In the silence of my suffering - I met God. It wasn't just in the spotlight. It was on the hospital bed, In the middle of the marital crisis, when the bank account hit zero, and when depression and anxiety couldn't lift; that was when I met Him. Not too loud, but real. Not flashy but faithful. He never waited till I was strong; He just showed up. All Gentle - Quiet - Present - Comforting. Not everything was fixed overnight but He gave me a deeper - kinder present; His peace - His nearness. In those moments of desperation, I realized that God's presence isn't about grand gestures or dramatic interventions. It's about His gentle whisper in the darkness, His comforting presence in the midst of pain. It's about finding solace in His nearness, even when everything else seems to be falling apart. As I reflect on those moments, I realize that God's faithfulness isn't dependent on my circumstances. He's not a God who's only present in the good ti...