LIVIA'S BOOKLET

There may be no proper response to why the abuse happened. No single answer to solve all the questions and complete the equation; But what we can do is be part of the solution. We can be the answer to a Survivor's cry for help. We can be the thousand voices that rise up to advocate for the elimination of Gender-Based Violence. We can be the ones who hold perpetrators accountable for their actions. We can be the safe haven where Survivors find solace, support, and strength. I remember the day I met Bomè, a survivor of gender-based violence. Her story was a heart-wrenching reminder of the devastating impact of abuse. But what struck me most was her resilience and determination to break the silence. She said, 'I want to be the voice for those who are still suffering in silence.' In that moment, I knew I had to be part of the solution. I joined forces with Bomè and countless others to rise up against gender-based violence. Together, we can create a world where Su...

"#NoExcuse for Gender-Based Violence" Today, we solemnly honor the memories of those who lost their lives to Gender-Based Violence (GBV). We remember their stories, their struggles, and their sacrifices. We acknowledge the pain and suffering they endured, and we recognize the resilience and courage they demonstrated in the face of unimaginable violence. As we recommit to creating safe and inclusive spaces, we imagine a world where survivors feel welcomed, protected, empowered, and supported in breaking their silence. We envision communities that believe survivors, listen to their stories, and provide unwavering support. We see a future where survivors are not blamed or shamed but instead embraced with compassion and understanding. Together, we will dismantle systems of oppression that perpetuate GBV. We will challenge harmful gender stereotypes, confront toxic masculinity, and advocate for policies and practices that promote gender equality. We will create spaces where ...

"The Power of Belief: A Path to Justice for Survivors" Acknowledgment is the first step towards justice. When survivors are believed, their experiences are validated, and their voices are heard. It's a powerful act that shatters the silence and shame that often accompany trauma. Justice begins with acknowledgment. It's the foundation upon which healing is built. When we acknowledge the harm that has been done, we take away the power of the perpetrator and give it back to the survivor. But acknowledgment alone is not enough. We must also take action. We must work towards creating a culture that prevents abuse and supports survivors. A culture that says, 'We believe you; we hear you, and we will fight for you.' Justice is not just about punishing perpetrators; it's about creating a world where survivors can thrive. Where they can share their stories without fear of judgment or retribution. We can start by listening to survivors, by believing their stories, a...

"Shattering Gender Norms, Shattering Violence” Gender norms and stereotypes are the invisible chains that restrict our potential and perpetuate a culture of violence and abuse. To break free from these chains, we need education, awareness, and open conversations that challenge harmful socio-cultural expectations. By targeting the root causes of gender-based violence, we can create a society that values and respects the dignity of all individuals across the gender spectrum. Gender-Based Violence is a universal issue that affects us all, regardless of gender identity or expression. It's time for us to take a collective stand, raise our voices, and raise awareness. Prevention starts with awareness, and action begins with us. Together, we can shatter the norms that perpetuate violence and create a world where everyone can thrive in safety and equality.  

"Breaking the Silence, Breaking the Cycle Silence is a toxic accomplice to Gender-Based Violence. When we fail to speak out, we inadvertently perpetuate the harm. Taboos surrounding GBV create a culture of shame, allowing perpetrators to continue their abuse with impunity. Meanwhile, victims are left to suffer in silence, denied the support and resources they desperately need. It's time to shatter the silence and smash the stigma. Survivors of GBV deserve our unwavering support, understanding, and advocacy. By creating a culture of empathy and understanding, we can empower them to seek help and rebuild their lives. Let's work together to create a world where survivors are heard, believed, and supported. A world where GBV is not tolerated, and perpetrators are held accountable. We can make a difference, one voice at a time."

"Gender-Based Violence is a National Crisis.” The devastating statistics of Gender-Based Violence (GBV) are a stark reminder that both men and women are being killed, injured, and traumatized every day. It's a harsh reality that demands our collective attention and action. The 16 Days of Activism against GBV presents a critical opportunity to raise our voices, take a stand, and demand change. This annual global campaign calls for the elimination of violence and the protection of human rights. It's a time to mobilize, educate, and advocate for policies and practices that promote gender equality and challenge harmful gender stereotypes. Together, we can make a difference. Let's use this 16-day period to amplify the voices of survivors, hold perpetrators accountable, and create a society that values and respects the dignity of all individuals. The time for action is now.  

  I write for hearts that have reclaimed their freedom, For untold stories and unread chapters, hard to relive. I write for pages ripped by betrayers' hands, Hands that held unfulfilled promises, and shattered plans.   But even in the tearing, a new chapter unfolds, A story of resilience, of hearts made bold. For those who've risen from the ashes, I write, To honor their strength, and the beauty in their light

  I am a rose with deep roots in my bones, Wildflowers blooming beneath my skin. I don't want to be plucked or carried away, Nor do I want to be transplanted to unfamiliar ground. I long to be nurtured in my own garden, Watered by the warmth of gentle hands. I crave the sunshine and the nourishing rain, To grow strong and wild, in my own sweet way.

  "Where do I go to grieve when my safe space is gone?" The chapter of my life that was yours is now a memory. I'm dragged into a new narrative, one that began with your ending. I yearn to turn back the pages, but life has torn them away. In dreams, I relive your passing, waking up in anguish, Consumed by emptiness, shock, and grief's heavy chains. I lose you all over again, reliving the pain. Since your departure, I've wandered, lost, without a home. No place feels like home now, but when we meet again, I'll finally find my way back, and my heart will be whole once more.